College Dating – Whom to date?

Most of us may ask the above question before you decide to propose someone for dating in college. It is very crucial to know whom to date in college dating because, your future may depend on this.

The college life forms an important era in somebody’s life. For most of us, college life is very important because, you get to know yourself much. It gives a complete freedom to the young people and they start thinking of building some relationships outside their home. But you should be careful to select what type of person you are selecting for the dating.

The best person to date here could be somebody from your class or he or she could be your professor. Dating someone who is from your own class has an edge over the latter, because, in this case, you get to know the person better and most probability, both of you share the same interest. He or she belongs to the same age and you can always initiate the discussion with your classmate by asking for some notes or like that.

Whereas, if you are mature enough and think that you better fit with the people who are much or little elder to you, then you should be dating a professor. In most of the cases, you have a huge crush on your professor and therefore, you feel good when you are dating with him. Dating a professor is much more beneficial than dating your classmate, because you get to know many things from the person who is much more experienced in your life. But dating a professor has certain disadvantages. First of all, your professors, being much matured than you, it is possible that he plays around with you and therefore, you need to cautious. Dating your professors can lead to certain worst consequences, because you may become a matter of gossip among your friends in college and may also effect your relation with your other friends.

You may date your friend’s ex boy friend or girl friend, but be very sure about if your friend is happy with that, else you may end up with loosing a wonderful friend in your life.

Going on a date with someone, helps you to understand him or her better because both of you would be alone with each other and will find enough time to spend with each other. Always remember, do trust the person, whom you are dating, but do not trust him blindly. Whenever, you go on a party or a bar, always refrain yourself from liquor or any alcoholic drinks. You may end up with paying a heavy price incase you are not careful of yourself. As long as possible, avoid sexual relationship with your partner and if you do involve in a sexual relation, make sure, it is within limits.

College dating forms an important part in our life. For most of us, it is the first time that we go into any love relationship. For some, the college dating may end up with a marriage.

Dating – In the college, On the web!

The world has become a global village! Connecting to friends on the web is in these days. As the number of friends and people that we reach out to through our blogs, web pages, tweets, profiles etc. is increasing exponentially, the wider our people network is growing. The mantra of the generation is “the more the merrier”. With such a wide network of friends, when it comes to choosing the only one and special for yourself, you are spoilt for choices. If you want to, you can go for the muscular honcho or for the intelligent geek.  You are friends with the hot blonde as well as the smart brunette. But when it comes to the deciding factor, it has to be compatibility that you should take care of. Go for the one whom you share likes, dislikes, hobbies etc. with.

Some people waste many dates in college in getting to know the person, only to realize towards the end that they don’t like the person. At many times, such a situation leads to heartache on one of the sides. Wouldn’t it have been good to avoid this all! Well, it can be avoided. Just go to your partner’s social networking page and all that you need to know is available on the web! And if your partner is registered on a dating site you get to know exactly what kind of a person they are!

Dating sites have flourished on the internet as the quick and easy approach to date! Now you don’t have to find common friends to just talk to the girl you fancy. Just go and find her on the web!

Your college is probably having a dating site and, trusts me, they are always a happening one. All the girls and guys of the college, willing to date, would be over there and there won’t be any kind of embarrassing proposal rejecting scenes! You can search through all the profiles for someone you like and then initiate a conversation online. If you think, the two of you click, then you can set up an outing like a movie or a carnival. Going for a first date to a public place is preferable as you may feel awkward in a private setting. But from then on, your relationship will bloom!

You may have seen a lass in the college for whom you fell for but have not been able to find about. Fear not, if she is in the college, she is on the web too! Go browse and there she may be, waiting for you! Or do you have a long lost high school sweetheart, go find him on the web, and for all you may know he may be in the college next door! The web is here to connect people (and to make them fall in love, the easy way!)

So don’t worry, go ahead, go tech, join the online gang and have fun! Enjoy your college dating life!

Love Online!

Everyone in college is connected to the internet these days. You may be sitting in the same café, but would chat only over facebook. Some may say it’s a bad habit, but none of us can do without the internet and online social networking!

The best thing about online social networking is the fact that you reach out to all of your friends at the same time and are not limited by your physical presence. You may interact with more people on the internet in a day than the number of people you interact face to face in a month. As such, you meet more people and your network is large and expanded.

Thus, when it comes to dating someone, you get a large variety and numerous choices. You don’t have to do with the second best! You can hit on your friends, friends of friends and friends of friends of friends! The more the hits, the more perfect is your ultimate choice. So when you, finally settle on the person to date, chances are that you have made a good choice because of the wide network.

One more thing that online dating facilitates is telling you the hobbies, likes, dislikes or the kind of person a particular person is. You don’t have to waste many of your precious days getting to know someone whom you ultimately don’t like. College life is short and sweet and should not be wasted dating the wrong person and having a bitter experience.

Also, people are just beginning to gain their individuality during college and its easier to understand them through the monitor screen, rather than upfront. Certain people are more comfortable in typing out their opinions rather than saying them loud. Thus, you get to know a person as he or she is.

If you have an online classes facilitated campus, then you will spend quite some time online and this would help you in keeping in touch with your date. Also, there won’t be much interference of a possessive date in your life.

Expressing your love (or lust) online, is pretty easy with the crowd of love sites available online. Sending e-cards is surely friendlier to your college budget than buying cards from the shops. You are in college and short on time and virtual gifts are cheap as well as easy to gift! You can show your love online by sending kisses and hugs on sites like facebook! Tweeting about how you are feeling right now will bring you and your partner closer. What’s more, love online can be made more fun if you both have video chat service!

Dating is the best solution to be the in crowd in college life. It is a confirmation of yes, you are in demand! As such, changing your status to “in a relationship” is a fast and quick way to spread the hot news and is bound to attract attention!

Online dating in college is a quick and fast way to manage your hectic life without making your partner angry! So keep connected, keep in touch, remain in love!

Have a creative dating life!

So you have been there, done that. It’s been a long time since you have been dating on the campus and the routine of fests, movies, clubs etc. is becoming boring to you. College dating, which used to be fun has become boring and repetitive. Its time to add zing to your dating life and trust me, it is as simple as it could be!

You or your partner may start feeling, that dating in college is a burden and you have to be forever doing this and doing that to make your partner happy. This kind of attitude arises only when you are giving and not taking. You also deserve happiness and you can get it, if you have been careful while choosing your date. So strike a balance between give and take and it would be rosy for both of you. Don’t let one of you take the upper hand. Let the initiative come from both sides. And both of you should be open to new ideas to have fun and should be creative and explorative. Try and have a creative dating life.

You always go to movies with good reviews. Try going for a bad movie and you two may have fun together commenting and joking about the horrible movie. And the movie hall too, is bound to be empty! That is an added bonus!

When you plan a date, take in consideration your date’s likes and dislikes. The age old fiasco of taking a vegetarian person to a seafood restaurant is a perfect example of screwing things up. Make sure, you book ahead and don’t have to face long queues or full house.

To have adventure in your life, you may go somewhere sporty or adventurous. Search for camps and treks etc. Going for a sport which you or your partner is familiar with is a good idea. Opting for student discounts is a cool idea. But before going, get reviews of the place from your friends or on the internet. Don’t go to unsafe places lest you both end up with a bitter experience. If you want to try out something new, and go to some far off place, always keep backup options at hand and keep a friend informed about your goings.

Try your hand at poetry. Gushing words about love can make your partner feel at top of the world. If you have a college magazine, you can place a message or a ‘wanted’ ad in it. If you have a campus radio, you can dedicate a song or send a message to them through it. It would be a hit! College Graffiti can be another medium to add creativity to your dating life. If you are too bad at art, pay someone to do it for you. But be creative, and go all out to make your dating life sparkle.

Take part in campus events together. Even if you end up competitors, you can have fun beating each other. If you are both sportspersons, then getting in the same team will be lots of fun as well as guarantee you load of time together!

You would love seeing the smile on your partner’s face and the college would get to know you as the coolest date on campus. So what are you waiting for, go jump in with your ideas, be creative, be crazy and make your dating life sparkle!

College Dating – Single or Committed

So you studied hard through school and now have landed in the best and coolest college possible. All the family and relatives praising you, but do you feel as if you have just slogged too hard in trying to get into this college. Has it been too much work and no fun for you? Fear not, Now that you have joined college, you will have plenty of opportunities to have fun. You will be going for the first shows of the movies, the hippest hangouts and the coolest clubs. And what is better than going to all these places with the person you like and want to spend time with.

College Dating is mostly about hanging out together and enjoying the golden college days. You need a partner in crime for all your mischief and having with you a person who shares your interests and likes and dislikes is an added bonus.

So choose wise, and once you are in a relationship stick to it. If you think that getting committed to a single person is boring, try to give in your best to the relationship and you will slowly realize that it can be quite interesting and fun too.

College dating is not at all concerned with marriage. Getting too much involved and planning your future life is a strict no-no as it is bound to cause unrest. However, if you are confident that you have found your ultimate partner, that he/she is the one, then stick to them and when you both are out of college, only then think or plan a long term commitment. While dating in college take one day at a time. That is why; you don’t need to fear commitment going awry.

When you think of being single or committed, being single during college life, may appeal to you as an alternative but its definitely going to be embarrassing. For one thing, all of your friends would be having a girlfriend or a boyfriend and when you all go out together, you will tend to feel lonely and embarrassed with all the couples unless you too have linked arms with someone.

We all know that college life is very competitive and some hard feelings also come from mates, as such, there is not much that you can share with your friends, but it’s only with your dating partner that you can say what you feel like sharing.

Some people think that dating while doing college will bring down their grades and distract them. Oh come on people! Learn to manage your life, study, work, but also enjoy! Go on dates at distributed days. Give a gap between two dates. Never schedule a date on or near the day of exam. Try to encourage your partner to be successful in life. Don’t burden them with too much cribbing about work or studies. Try to use your girlfriend’s or boyfriends’ resources to help you out in tough situation. When you learn these small things, you will see a big difference.

So, in college, go and find someone special and commit yourself!